Updated: Jan 3, 2020
Despite your best of intentions, reality is, nothing will change if you don’t do anything different.
Life is not a Disney movie, we can’t wish upon a star and sit around hoping everything will sort itself out – that’s not how it works.
Truth is, if you’re waiting for someone to save you, give you a break or cut you some slack – it’s most probably never going to happen.
So the realisation you need to come to is simple: "no body is coming to rescue you!"
Start from there.
I know that sounds rather pessimistic, but I prefer to call it a healthy dose of reality.
But instead of getting all glum about it, it might be worthwhile also noting that the opposite is equally true.
Things can change if you really want them to.
But that also means you have to commit yourself to doing something different.
Taking a leap of faith, saying yes for a change and seeing where that takes you.
That comes with a little risk and uncertainty, but that's where the magic happens.
There are many kind people in the world, open and willing enough to help, but they aren't looking for you, you need to look for them and then you need to be brave enough to ask.