Growing Up

Updated: Jan 3, 2020


Growing up has very little to do with age and everything to do with responsibility.

If nothing else, at least taking full responsibility for your own life and the set of circumstances you find yourself in.

Children, by their very nature are dependent, that’s what they do.

They rely on guidance from their parents (for good reason) and they tend to shift blame when things go wrong.

When was the last time you saw a child voluntarily take responsibility for something, admit a fault and work to make things good again?

If anything, the state of childhood can be boiled down to those two variables, firstly, the shifting of blame onto others and secondly, the reliance on someone else to do things for you.

So essentially, you can be 40, 50 or even 60 and still be displaying behaviours classically attributed to children.

But who wants to grow up right?

Responsibility is over rated, it’s restrictive, it’s not fun.

Peter Pan, often glamourised, is the poster boy for the man that refuses to grow up.