It's (Not) All In Your Mind
Updated: Jan 10, 2020
I often hear that ‘its all in my mind’ – if I can just change my mind, then everything will be ok.
Although I acknowledge that mindset is a very powerful thing, I don’t acknowledge that everything is always on you!
That it’s all and always your fault
That you always somehow deserved what you got because you manifested it
That just by changing your mind, everything will be rosy.
I think it’s important to acknowledge that injustices exist and that you don't always get what you want.
That people don’t always treat each other nicely and that maybe, just maybe, it’s not always your fault.
Maybe the world is a little broken after all.
Maybe people are a little broken too?
Now that’s not to say you should lie down and play victim, that won’t get you anywhere.
Knowing what you know about yourself and the world, you still have to find a way to move forward.
To navigate your way through it in a way that is meaningful.
I think the danger in believing that it’s all in your mind is that you can find yourself dissociating yourself from reality and if you do that, you never get to dealing with the things that are in front of you.
I think it’s relatively obvious that some things exist and occur irrespective of what you might believe about them. Which to me suggests that there are some rules and some order that you do need to contend with at some level.
I’ll give you an example.
If I jump off a building and believe I will fly, I’m pretty certain I