Updated: Aug 23, 2021
I often hear that ‘its all in my mind’ – if I can just change my mind, then everything will be ok.
Although I acknowledge that mindset is a very powerful thing, I don’t acknowledge that everything is always on you!
That it’s all and always your fault
That you always somehow deserved what you got because you manifested it
That just by changing your mind, everything will be rosy.
I think it’s important to acknowledge that injustices exist and that you don't always get what you want.
That people don’t always treat each other nicely and that maybe, just maybe, it’s not always your fault.
Maybe the world is a little broken after all.
Maybe people are a little broken too?
Now that’s not to say you should lie down and play victim, that won’t get you anywhere.
Knowing what you know about yourself and the world, you still have to find a way to move forward.
To navigate your way through it in a way that is meaningful.
I think the danger in believing that it’s all in your mind is that you can find yourself dissoc