Choosing Your Friends

Updated: Aug 23, 2021


This is a tough one, but it’s important to note that you can actually choose your friends.

You have a real say in this.

I know loyalty is a factor, especially for life long friends – but the natural cycle of life is one of birth and death and unfortunately this also applies to friendships.

We all need to have that sense of belonging, so having friends is a healthy and important part of your growth – but having the wrong friends can actually pull you into the abyss.

I’m not sure what’s worse, having no friends or having the wrong friends?

Let’s begin by exploring what qualities you should look for in a friend.

Firstly, friendship is not a one-way street.

The time, effort, energy, genuine love and care should flow both ways, otherwise you’ll quickly find yourself depleted – of time, money, energy and even your spirit.

If you can’t go to a person and sh